My journey through the senior care and living industry began with the abrupt
need for intervention on my mother's behalf. In her effort to remain independent
along with her self-destructive personal choices, she had literally set herself
up for being at the mercy of those who had taken advantage of her. It was not
until she had lost everything and could no longer live on her own that she
allowed me to help her. And sadly it was then too late for her to regain the
independence she desired. She had made too many bad choices, refused to
recognize her need for help, and was literally wasting away from alcohol abuse,
smoking and disease. The journey of intervention and care for her was a very
difficult, time consuming, stressful, frustrating, and overwhelming process that
took me through nearly every level of care for my mother and with it exposure to
numerous agencies, and resources for seniors.
At only 72, my mother had not filed for Social Security or Medicare, had
no health care provider, stopped receiving pension and retirement income, had
either lost or destroyed legal documentation, and had no money or assets.
Although clearly in distress with breathing difficulties, contusions, and many
other problems, she refused to go to the doctor. After a few ER visits and a
hospital admission, she was provided RX and recommendations for LTC after being
diagnosed with COPD, Parkinson's, and significant cognitive impairment, a.k.a.,
Dementia. Looking at her brain scans revealed a brain much smaller than her
skull - no wonder she wasn't thinking clearly and falling all the time. At this
time her Durable Power of Attorney was enacted and I was thrust into the role of
my mother's care manager. Within a few months her funds were re-instated, on
Medicare, and she was moving through various levels of care as her needs
increased.
While managing my mother's care I enjoyed volunteering in her community,
singing for the residents and helping with activities. I soon found that my
experience as a Recreation Supervisor, Instructor, Entertainer, Event
Coordinator, and Program Director, along with a lifelong passion for the
elderly, culminated in my becoming a Certified Activity Leader "CAL". Becoming a
CAL not only provided me with education regarding the care for seniors, the
aging process, and the diseases that afflict them, but also the significant
importance in providing opportunities and activities that treat the whole person
and not just the condition or disease they have.
In the midst of my mother's journey I drew on my experience as a
professional singer to develop a musical program that not only entertains, but
also provides opportunities for interaction and music therapy. During these
visits I go on a journey with listeners where we can enjoy smiles, laughter,
memories and moments of peace. Throughout the year I enjoy presenting Broadway
Tunes, Romantic Melodies, Patriotic Celebrations, Christmas Memories and
Inspirational selections.
When my mother's journey was ending, I was better prepared due in part to
the education and exposure I had gained from the "End of Life Spiritual Care"
program through the Hospice Foundation of America along with the Hospice team
and the SNF staff that cared for her. Being there for my mother, near her end of
life, was an honor to be shared and if I were able to be there for others, to
sit at their bedside, comfort them, or sing to them, I would. However in my
absence, I offer my CD "Hope for the Journey" which was produced in memory of my
own father who asked to 'keep on singing' before he passed. My hope is to
provide a peace, comfort and encouragement to others through the CD.
After my mother passed, I was ready to start a new journey, one that
would no doubt include much of what I had learned and gained from the years of
managing my mother's care. In addition, my experience as a Marketing Director in
the Healthcare Industry along with being a Certified Activity Leader had
provided me with insight that was shaping my thoughts about this new journey. I
had seen the value and importance for seniors to not only have something to look
forward to in the way of activities, food and entertainment, but to also remain
as mentally and physically active as possible. Living in a senior community
there is ample opportunity for activity. But at home a senior can become
isolated, sedentary, weak, and lonely. All of which can lead to fall risk,
failure to thrive, lack of desire and depression. Living at home is where they
want to be and in many cases their only choice. So how could one remain home
safe and secure while enjoying meaningful moments and enriching activities? My
journey had begun!
I set out to develop a plan where seniors could enjoy a professionally
run activity program that could be personalized and managed from their own
homes. And in January 2013 my plan became reality with the launching of The Life
Enrichment Activity Program "LEAP" for The HomeCare Source in Sacramento and
Placer Counties of California. Each client has access to a monthly thematic
calendar of activities designed for the home setting, as well as a personalized
assessment and program. With the purpose of LEAP to encourage, inspire,
motivate, energize, soothe, and simply 'help seniors enjoy life in their own
home', we are meeting the desires of the senior, as well as the family. As a son
recently said, "I wanted more than basic care of my mom" and more is what LEAP
is all about.
While building the LEAP program I was also considering where and how to
expand my education in the Senior Care Industry. I asked other professionals
what they saw as beneficial and discovered that the Society of Certified Senior
Advisors was a well-respected and honorable designation. With my experience and
exposure in the industry, combined with the abundance of information and
training materials provided by SCSA, I determined that I would be better
equipped to move forward in my career.
Becoming a CSA has provided me with valuable resources, tools, and
opportunities for continuing education. Through the network of fellow CSAs on
LinkedIn, Facebook, Blogs, Senior Spirit Newsletter and the CSA Journal, I have
gained access to valuable insight, information, and connections throughout the
country. As a CSA, I confidently guide clients and friends through their own
journeys to reliable resources, as well as to other CSAs for help and
assistance.
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This recommendation sums up in part how my being a CSA has benefited me:
"Pati demonstrates to our clients, prospective clients, and referral sources,
the knowledge, professionalism, and ethics that are fundamental to her CSA
designation. Her excellent reputation precedes her and the credibility she has
earned as a Certified Senior Advisor is very valuable to our organization."
Sheila Abbasi; Owner, The HomeCare Source, Granite Bay California.
I am extremely thankful to the SCSA for providing the designation
opportunity for professionals to expand their knowledge, continue their
education, and provide resources for seniors and their loved ones. It is an
honor to be a part of the SCSA.
Pati Rader, CSA
Certified Senior
Advisor
Marketing, Events, & Consumer Experience Consultant
www.patirader.com
Life Enrichment Coordinator, Community Relations Director
www.TheHomeCareSource.com
"Golden Years Don't Have to Lose Their Shine" editorial about the Life
Enrichment
Activity Program LEAP
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