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Tuesday, July 8, 2025
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When Is It Time to Hire a Financial Advisor?
Financial advisors aren't only for millionaires.
If you wouldn’t use the term “wealthy” to describe yourself, you’re in good company. Most people don’t need a “wealth manager.” But middle-income families and individuals can benefit greatly from working with a financial advisor. Different financial professionals work with people of different net worths to help them meet personal goals.
Money expert Clark Howard suggests a rule of thumb: if you have less than $50,000 to invest, or if you’re at least 20 years out from retirement, you don’t need a financial advisor. At that stage, just focus on accumulating and investing your money.
Consider starting the search for a financial advisor if you’re asking any of these questions, and especially if they’re causing you stress.
- How close am I to being able to retire?
- How much can I commit to paying for my child’s college?
- I just received an inheritance. What’s the wisest way to invest this money today?
- I’ve never tried to organize my finances. What don’t I know that I need to know?
Then, consider what support you need. Would you benefit from a birds-eye-view assessment of your entire financial life? Look for certified financial planning services. Are you focused on how to invest your portfolio? You might be able to get by with a robo-advisor, “automated investing platform” that analyzes the market and tells you where to put your money. Do you want help solving the problem of retirement or paying for college? It could be worth hiring a financial advisor.
How do I choose a financial advisor?
First, understand the different pay structures. Some advisors (including robo-advisors) take a percentage of the assets they help you invest. That’s the Assets Under Management, or AUM, model. Other advisors are fee-based fiduciaries, meaning they charge a flat fee. Fee-based fiduciaries appeal to smaller investors, and many experts recommend only ever opting for this service model. The fees might be based on an annual retainer, a stand-alone financial plan, or an hourly consultation rate (usually $200 to $400). One sign of a good advisor is a transparent pricing plan that includes dollar amounts, payment schedules, and a clear explanation of the services rendered at each level.
Next, ask around for referrals. A trusted source’s recommendation to a local advisor will be invaluable. A Google search for “fee-only fiduciaries near me” is another place to start, as is the Garrett Planning Network, where you can plug in your zip code for a list of local advisors. You can also search the website of the National Association of Personal Financial Advisors, or NAPFA, using their online tool. All of the advisors listed on NAPFA are fee-based, but they may have minimum requirements for the size of your assets. Another resource is the Alliance of Comprehensive Planners (ACP), which also allows you to search fee-based advisors.
Here are some green flags to look for during your financial advisor search.
- They’re a CFP. A Certified Financial Planner (CFP) has specialized training, passed a rigorous exam, and follows an ethics code for comprehensive financial planning.
- They pass a background check on BrokerCheck https://brokercheck.finra.org/. The Financial Industry Regulatory Authority (FINRA) runs this website to offer consumers a check on financial advisors’ work history and any “disclosure events,” or complaints made against them.
- You feel comfortable with them. After an initial meeting, you should be feeling encouraged and enlightened, not baffled or worried.
- They’re free of conflicts of interest. Some advisors may earn a commission on financial products and therefore have an interest in selling them to you. Ask about whether the advisor stands to gain from any financial advice they give you. Another way to ask this question is to inquire as to whether they have a fiduciary interest to you as their client, meaning they’re professionally bound to put your interests ahead of yours. All CFPs are fiduciaries.
A visit to a fee-based financial advisor is like a visit to the doctor. You can get a holistic check-up of your financial health, or you can ask specific questions like, “How will the health of my portfolio be affected if I make this contribution to my kid’s college fund?” Investing a little time and money into that visit will likely help you to feel less queasy about your financial health, and could place you in a much better position for the future.
Additional sources:
https://money.usnews.com/investing/articles/how-to-find-a-financial-advisor-if-youre-not-rich
https://www.cnbc.com/2024/11/11/red-flags-to-avoid-when-choosing-a-financial-advisor.html
https://www.cnbc.com/2019/10/23/guide-to-choosing-the-right-financial-professional-for-you.html
https://www.letsmakeaplan.org/choosing-a-planner/10-questions-to-ask-your-financial-advisor
https://www.nasdaq.com/articles/to-the-middle-class-financial-advisors-arent-just-for-the-rich
Sunday, July 6, 2025
Five Myths About Hospice Care
Hospice care is all about living well during the time families have together.
Myth #1: Hospice is about killing off the patient.
Myth #2: Hospice is a place.
How to Choose an Excellent Hospice Provider: Questions to Ask
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Myth #3: No one ever leaves hospice care.
Myth #4: Hospice is prohibitively expensive.
- The insured person has been given a life expectancy of six months or less by a physician.
- The care the person is receiving is comfort care only.
- The person has Part A in place.
- The person is enrolled in a Medicare-approved program.
Myth #5: A small hospice provider is always better than a large one.
Sources:
Friday, July 4, 2025
The 'Boommates' Trend: More Boomer Women are Sharing a Home
As part of Senior Spirit's Lifestyle series on Solo Aging, we're taking a look at women aging solo, together.
Looking for a Boommate?
- HomeShare Online, formerly Silvernest, links homeowners with renters of all ages. According to their website, homeowners earn an average of $850/month, and renters save an average of $750/month as compared to a one-bedroom apartment.
- Home Match, from the nonprofit Front Porch, links older homeowners with people of any age seeking affordable housing and a flexible living arrangement. They say: “Home Match benefits everyone. It decreases isolation, provides housing security, and above all, builds community.”
- The National Shared Housing Resource Center is a network of home sharing organizations. They can connect you to local nonprofits that fill a niche in communities across the country. HomeShare Vermont, for example, has 40 years of experience linking up homeowners with potential renters, the Shared Housing Center has been serving Dallas since 1984.
- Also consider reaching out to your local Area Agency on Aging and/or local government. Some municipalities have ways to match people looking for housing with those offering it.
Wednesday, July 2, 2025
Luxury Summer Travel by Train and Bus
Cars and planes are the default summer travel modes within the U.S., but train and bus options are attracting travelers with luxury amenities.
Regional Rail
Luxury Bus Travel
- Red Coach operates in and between Florida, Texas, and Georgia. Their goal is to set the new standard of comfort in bus travel. Most noticeably, that includes the option to upgrade to First Class for the ability to recline 140 degrees with extra legroom–and those extra degrees could mean the difference between a night of rest and the night of discomfort you more often associate with long bus trips. A one-way ticket from Miami to Orlando starts at $24.99.
- Vamoose opened in 2004 to fill a gap in the market: a clean and comfortable bus experience where you could call a real person to book on the phone. Today, they operate daily service between New York City and three suburbs of Washington, D.C. A one-way ticket from Lorton, Virginia to New York City starts around $35.
- Tufesa started in Mexico and now offers service in California, Utah, Arizona, and several other Western states. Fully reclining seats are almost nonexistent on U.S. bus carriers, but they’re common in other parts of the world. Tufesa is bringing that level of luxury here: for an extra fee, you can buy a ticket that lets you take a bus from Los Angeles to Sacramento while basically sleeping in a bed. Be aware that, unlike most U.S. coach buses today, some Tufesa buses don’t offer WiFi. A trip from L.A. to Las Vegas costs in the range of $54.
The Auto Train
Tuesday, July 1, 2025
Famous & 65
Look who's turning 65 this month
July 14
July 22
Born in Colombia and raised in New York City, this actor and comedian is known for infusing his work with cultural commentary and humor. He broke through with performances in films like Carlito’s Way and Romeo + Juliet. In 1995, he earned a Golden Globe nomination for portraying the drag queen Chi Chi Rodriguez in the movie To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar. He’s also known for bringing Sid the Sloth to life in the Ice Age franchise. On stage, his one-man shows—such as Freak, Ghetto Klown, and Latin History for Morons—blend autobiographical storytelling with social critique and have earned him multiple awards. An advocate for Latinx representation in media, he’s served on the board of the National Museum of the American Latino since 2022. Answer: Who is…. (click here to reveal)?
July 30
This acclaimed American filmmaker is known for his philosophical storytelling and innovative approaches to character. He first gained attention with the 1991 indie hit Slacker, which captured the spirit of Gen X through a series of loosely connected vignettes. His Dazed and Confused, a nostalgic portrait of 1970s high school life, became a cult classic. He’s perhaps most famous for his Before trilogy (Before Sunrise, Before Sunset, Before Midnight), which explores love and aging over nearly two decades with the same actors. His groundbreaking film Boyhood, shot over 12 years with the same cast, earned major acclaim for its emotional depth and experimental form. Born in Houston, he lives in Austin, Texas. Answer: Who is…. (click here to reveal)?
Thursday, June 12, 2025
How to Recycle a Phone or Computer with Care
When it’s time to say goodbye to a phone or computer, take steps to protect both your data and the environment.
Protect the Planet
- Manufacturer Take Back Programs. All major manufacturers have take back or buy back programs (partly because they’re required to by those state laws). Apple, for example, will recycle your device for you for free. Of course, first check if you’re eligible for a trade-in instead. With most companies, you can either mail in your device or take it to your local store.
- The Arc. A national charity with local branches in most states, The Arc supports people with developmental disabilities and their families. Some locations, including The Arc of Alachua County, Florida, accept unwanted devices for free or a small fee. They’ll even wipe and destroy your hard drive for you. Check your local organization’s drop-off policies and fees.
- Best Buy. The retailer supports customers in wiping and recycling old devices of all kinds. They also offer a Trade-In Calculator to help you understand if your device has any trade-in value.
- Donate. If your device isn’t bricked, consider donating it to a charity that will refurbish it and get it into the hands of people who need it. Check for local organizations, or go international with a group like World Computer Exchange, who will accept all devices newer than seven years old via mail, clean them, and send them to schools in need around the world.
- Recycle locally. If mailing in your device seems like a hassle, there’s surely a recycling center near you that accepts drop-offs of e-waste. Check out Call2Recycle, where you can plug in your zip code and find local centers that will accept as many devices as you can bring them.
Wednesday, June 11, 2025
Observation vs. Admittance: It's Not Covered Unless...
Medicare coverage varies widely depending on whether you were admitted to the hospital or just there under observation.
If you’re staying overnight in the hospital, you’re an inpatient. If you’re at the hospital receiving care for the day, you’re an outpatient. Right?
Wrong. Those common-sense definitions aren’t the ones Medicare uses. Knowing what Medicare actually considers inpatient vs. outpatient could save you thousands of dollars.
The difference for Medicare hinges on whether a patient is admitted to the hospital or simply there for observation. According to Medicare.gov, “You're an inpatient starting when you're formally admitted to the hospital with a doctor's order.” You’re an outpatient if you’re receiving services in the hospital–including ER care, observation services, outpatient surgery, lab tests, and any other care–when “the doctor hasn't written an order to admit you to a hospital as an inpatient. In these cases, you're an outpatient even if you spend the night in the hospital.”
“The distinction between observation and admission has clinical and ethical implications for patients and practices,” according to Dr. Laura Haselden and Dr. Sabrina Rahman in a 2023 article in the AMA Journal of Ethics called “Cheating the Rules of Admission with ‘Observation.’” For physicians, there’s often no meaningful difference between a patient who needs care for at least two midnights, and one who likely needs care for more than two midnights. The former should be admitted, while the latter can remain under simple observation. And yet when doctors make that key call, they’re initiating potentially major financial consequences for the patient.
While patient advocates fight to make this process more transparent for everyone, protect your own finances by understanding the difference between admittance and observation.
What Medicare Does and Doesn’t Cover
Even when the actual services rendered look exactly the same, Medicare coverage differs greatly based on whether the patient has been admitted as an inpatient or is being observed as an outpatient. Medicare Part A pays for inpatient services, but not for outpatient services. Part B will usually cover outpatient care, but the patient will pay more than they would for an inpatient stay covered under Part A. And for those who don’t have Part B coverage, the observation (outpatient) services will likely have to come out of pocket.
Importantly, Medicare will only cover care at a skilled nursing facility (SNF) if the patient was admitted to a hospital (i.e., as an inpatient) for at least three days and then discharged to the SNF.
Unfortunately, there’s incentive for hospitals to lean toward observation rather than admittance. Under the Medicare Fee for Service Recovery Audit Program, hospitals might lose their reimbursement if Medicare finds that they admitted someone who didn’t medically need to be admitted. As a result, hospitals tend to err on the side of observing patients if there’s initial doubt that they need to be admitted.
According to Medicare, “The decision for inpatient hospital admission is a complex medical decision based on your doctor’s judgment and your need for medically necessary hospital care.” However, Dr. Haselden and Dr. Rahman counter, “Although observation status is intended as a clinical decision-making tool, it has become more of an all-purpose loophole to artificially improve hospital metrics and pose barriers to inpatient care.”
New Policies Up Patient Protection
The thing is, patients don’t always know when they’ve been admitted versus when they’re just being observed. Even worse, a hospital can change a patient’s status without notifying the patient–even retroactively, after they’ve left the hospital.
Thankfully, in recent years, advocates have won protections for patients that make the question of admittance versus observation more transparent. As of 2017, hospitals must use a form called a MOON (Medicare Outpatient Observation Notice) to notify all patients who are under observation for more than 24 hours what that status means and what Medicare will and will not cover. Staff must provide written and oral notice within 36 hours of the patient entering care. However, since that notice period might be longer than the observation period itself, a patient could still go home after an overnight hospital stay thinking their stay was covered when it wasn’t.
Late last year, the Center for Medicare Advocacy won additional rights for patients in a case against Medicare. The new policies require hospitals to inform patients when their status changes from admittance to observation. Even better, the new rules allow patients to appeal changes of status that caused their stay at an SNF not to be covered by Medicare. The ability to appeal applies retroactively to patients who were affected by a change of status since 2009. Looking ahead, the Medicare Rights Center and others are fighting to eliminate the three-day inpatient stay requirement for SNF care coverage.
For now, as an individual, stay aware that an outpatient stay can look just like an inpatient stay, with a very different price tag. Ask hospital staff about the status of yourself or loved one, and request a copy of their policies on changes in admission status.
Additional sources:
https://qrmhealth.com/blog-new-hospital-observation-vs-in-patient-stay-appeal-process-and-updates/
https://www.tn-elderlaw.com/post/what-you-need-to-know-about-the-moon
In Sickness and in Health: Aging Together with Different Needs
Couples are looking for ways to live together at every level of care.
- Independent living: People 55 and up live in their own homes or apartments, independently or as a couple, with minimal or no assistance. Amenities might include shared meals, activities, common spaces, and transportation.
- Assisted living: Individuals or couples live on their own with some support with activities of daily living in the home.
- Memory care: In a residential setting, people with Alzheimer’s disease or other memory loss have access to the latest therapies and specially trained staff.
- Skilled nursing care: 24/7 care for all medical needs.
- Life Care (Type A): Higher upfront fee, but predictable costs even as care needs increase. Sometimes called a lifecare contract.
- Modified (Type B): Some services included, but others cost extra
- Fee-for-Service (Type C): Lower entry cost, but you pay market rates as care needs increase. Sometimes called a fee-for-service contract.
Questions to Ask
- Can both partners stay in the same unit with care services brought in for one of them?
- Is there flexibility in meal plans, care staffing, and daily routines to support one partner needing more assistance?
- How does the community and staff support the partner who’s acting as a caregiver for the other?
- Are there additional costs for higher levels of care? How does the pricing structure work?
- What happens if one spouse eventually needs memory care and the other doesn't? How do staff support residents and their families during that transition?
- If one partner dies or moves to a different level of care, can the healthy partner stay in their current unit?
- Are there shared activities both can attend, regardless of ability?
- How often and easily can they visit each other?
- Are there structured programs or staff support to keep them connected, including couples’ counseling or support groups?
- What are your policies for visitors and overnight stays?
Tuesday, June 10, 2025
Are New Weight Loss Drugs Safe for Older Adults?
Drugs like Wegovy promise dramatic weight loss--but muscle and bone are part of that weight lost.
Special Considerations for Older People
The Cost
The Big Picture
Volunteering in the Arts
Give back to your community and get your culture fix at the same time.
Usher at a Local Theater
Museum Docent
Community Artist
Historic Fife and Drum Corps Member
Monday, June 9, 2025
Famous & 65
Look who's turning 65 this month
June 11
June 17
This Texas-born actor began his career in the early 1990s with a breakout role as the dim-witted but lovable Lowell Mather on the sitcom Wings. He later transitioned into film: early on, he appeared as the villain Lyle van de Groot in George of the Jungle (1997). Not long after, he earned an Academy Award nomination for Best Supporting Actor for his performance as Jack, a charming but troubled groom-to-be, in the 2004 indie hit Sideways. Known for his rugged voice and understated delivery, he’s often cast as a villain–he played Flint Marko, a.k.a. Sandman, in Spider-Man 3 (2007) and Spider-Man: No Way Home (2021). Beyond acting, he’s also worked behind the camera as a director and writer and spends much of his time on his ranch in Texas. Answer: Who is…. (click here to reveal)?
June 22
Despite a lack of any formal legal training, this environmental activist became a national figure in the 1990s after helping build a groundbreaking case against Pacific Gas and Electric Company (PG&E) for contaminating the water supply in Hinkley, California. Working as a legal assistant, she uncovered documents and rallied residents, ultimately leading to a historic $333 million settlement, the largest of its kind at the time. Her story inspired a 2000 film starring Julia Roberts, who won an Academy Award for portraying her. Since then, she’s continued to speak out on environmental and public health issues across the U.S. Answer: Who is…. (click here to reveal)?